After a while, we will get used to this parade of so-called ‘I love you’ and there will be nothing new about us. Our mystery and chemistry will be resting in peace. There will be constant arguments about loyalty and sincerity for no reason at all. Every day will start with a quarrel and eventually we wouldn’t care if one of us is going to bed angry. Some days you will be grumpy while the other days, I will be screaming. We will be cursing and it will feel like love never existed between us. Our egos will not allow us to be apologetic and we will keep blaming each other regardless of being aware that it is nobody’s but our own fault if this life feels less like the safe haven we imagined with each other. There will only be a tug of war between us and if by chance sometimes once or twice a year (fortunately/unfortunately) we get to spend a day without picking up an argument; that will have to be a miracle. However, lets try to sort this out. Before we reach that stage when love is lost in the blur of an argument or trapped within the tick-tock of the clock, let’s love unconditionally and ‘live in the moment’. Thus no conditions and no consequences. If you can do it then love me or leave right now before we become our greatest enemy.
His forever can last a second or two,
Sometimes, not even a day get passed through,
He cradles me in his arms and I know this to be true,
His forever is our present, may it be an eternity or this passing view.
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sometimes love surprises, but of course – who cares most loses….
Love surprises usually — sometimes (mostly) even loss is a surprise. Thank you for reading and commenting, paa.
Blessings and love,
Love requires constant nurturing from both partners, unfortunately people generally feel that once they’ve found someone that be it and falling in love was enough.
Lovely reading your view as always Naima ❤
Yeah, usually (as far as I have seen) one person is trying and striving to survive , to keep the flame burning and love alive. Falling in love is quite easy; going through with it is an accomplishment.
Thank you for always commenting and reading, lovely Barrira ❤
Agreed people just tend to make things difficult, that’s why I like cats (ok sorry I don’t know where that came from lol)
Is is beautiful. I have really not much in the insight because when it comes to love I am at a loss. There are certain kinds of love I have given up on and this would be the one. I will stick to my children for now on – no pain…
Way to go, Kim ❤ you go gal!
No one can preach us love. It is learnt and mastered by losing it.
I don’t think everybody have to lose it to master it. Also, I think you master ‘yourself’ if you lose love than mastering love itself.
Thank you for the comment.
Mastering yourself makes you a better person. A better person (who values love and have lost it already) will certainly love better.
Only if the person dares to love again. Not everybody can. Not everybody will.
Daring would be a harsh word to use in context of love. It only depends if the person is ready to share the love that lies inside him/her instead of fearing to lose again, knowing that the best kind of love rests in his/her own heart.
Fear is an aftermath consequence that comes with losing one time. It’s normal.
Absolutely normal; Everyone fears;
But winners conquer it.
Or may be losers conquer it to lose all over again.
Here is one funny thing about being a loser.. Give up right when you lose for the first time or never at all. There is no point in trying and losing 10 times and ‘then’ give it up.
I was talking about giving up when you lose for the first time — it takes courage to try all over again.
Reblogged this on Finding myself.
Thank you for your re-blog.
I’ve seen people falling in love and then falling out of it in no time…but I’ve also seen some walking along together forever.. love s full of surprises, its upto us on how we take it. I read it twice, its beautiful and truly said..live in the moment.! 🙂
Love is full of surprises: forever and loses. Both are out there, how one end up is their fate (I think). Sometimes when we can’t stop somebody, it hurts. Sometimes when we can’t get out, it hurts. We are humans and our heart is always playing games.
Thank you for reading and sharing your kind words with me, Archita.
Yes your point of view is perfectly right, you’re welcome 🙂
The other day my hubby asked me if I wanted to go out on a date with him. I’m still waiting. At least he asked – LOL
The kids sure keep us busy.
Awww.. You always share these stories with me and light up my day with true love you and your husband share. I wish you and your family a very beautiful and blessed life together (Amen).
Thank you for always sharing your stories, Rosy. They mean so much to me.